Happy 4th of July

Freedom

A big Thank You to the men and women who made this country different some 235 years ago. People flock to our country by the millions to participate in the freedoms the country of America offers as they have done for two hundred years. America offers to one and all the security, protection and freedom not found in any other country.

When this country was founded the fathers saw unlimited space for the millions they anticipated escaping the tyranny of the governing bodies of other lands. Not just England, but all of Europe, Asia, the Middle East, Africa, and so many more. The founding fathers had found a land that could accommodate all and developed a governing body to represent all these different people.

Everyone would have a say in how the government would be run and no body would be told what they could or could not do unless it infringed on the rights of others. The government offered each and every person the protection of life and property.

Freedom of speech was guaranteed as was religion. Everyone could worship as they saw fit - Mormon, Baptist, Methodist, Catholic, Muslim, Holiness, Lutheran and all the others - and churches abounded. Following the guidelines of the Ten Commandments, laws were made for the inhabitants of America. Each and every person had input into the making and passing of these laws. The leaders of the country listened to the people and voted, not by what they felt, but what the people expressed to them.

This was a new country, built to escape the power seeking tyranny of old. These people were happy to have a place to escape the threats and control of their old governments. They wanted a place to build new lives and didn't mind working hard. They had worked hard before to line the pockets of previous rulers and governments, while their families did without and suffered greatly.

New businesses were built to trade goods and provide for the new inhabitants of this vast new land. Explorers expanded the boundaries of the new land and people slowly filled the vast spaces of this America while the original inhabitants were pushed into smaller and smaller spaces in an effort to survive.

Where are we today? After only two hundred some years has this America become that which the founding fathers and the first immigrants escaped? Is not the government lining its own pockets at the expense of the working people? How can businesses survive with the taxes required by the government to employ people? What services are needed that require such heavy funding and are those services necessary? Is it necessary for government to take over businesses even if the fail? If a person cannot run a business in a profitable manner, why should the government take them over? Are the people so dependent on working for someone else, they no longer know how to survive by hard work and thinking for themselves? Has government made it so hard for people to start a business, they become frustrated and give up?

This country was founded by people who wanted a chance of making a life without government control. Can we find our way back? Are we looking at a future where a single leader controls our life, our liberty? People, get control of yourself first and then look to having a voice in the running of this country. Don't five up your freedoms on which this vast land of America was founded.

I say yea to the Tea Parties, to the activist who voices their concerns, to anyone who stands up and voices their beliefs. Let's start making the right changes in our own country and quit focusing on the civil uprising on those people who are fighting the tyranny in other countries. There are no new vast lands to which we can escape. There must be a change first in the hearts and minds of each individual and then as a nation.

Thank you to those founding fathers who had a unique concept and had the courage and stamina to go forth and develop the Constitution that establish this great country. Happy fourth of July - the birthday of our nations independence and freedom.

Lesson Learned

I have deleted two posts that I had many phone calls and emails about - Leeches or Good Behavior Part 1 and Part 2. I removed them because my grandson made a comment that made me take a second look at the articles. Yes, I said what many wish they could say, but why must it be said at all? Do people no longer know how to behave? Must our friends and family act like jerks? We have worked long and hard for what we have - which we are aware is not much - but it is ours - not mine not hubby's but ours.

If a person does not have enough respect for Hubby and me, then we really don't need them in our life. We can easily fix this problem. Are we so high and mighty on social graces? No, but we deserve a little respect. We have so many wonderful friends and members of our family, we don't need those that cause us heartache or worry and those who refuse to follow the rules of good behavior. AND we don't like troublemakers.

We were raised to respect the property, including the homes, of others. If it is not yours, don't use or abuse it. Leave it like you found it.

Don't be glutinous - we will gladly share, but leave us something to share with others.

Respect the privacy of others.

No one owes you anything - you don't owe us anything, we don't owe you anything.

Do not misrepresent what we say - we will call you on it. Don't play games with us.

If you break it and it can be fixed - do so - if not replace it.

We still stand by this one - don't bring someone to our home when we have advised you we don't like them and don't want them here. We reserve the right to protect anyone visiting our home and if we feel someone else has become a threat to them - the threatening party is not welcome! We want everyone to feel comfortable while visiting.

Don't judge - you haven't walked in our shoes and probably only know part of our story.

Don't condemn - only God has the right.

We do not baby sit adults - if you are physically capable of walking, talking, seeing and hearing, you can take care of yourself.

Don't mess with our coffee pot - it only likes us.

Don't leave wet clothes or towels on the floor. If you are going to use them again, hang them up; if you are not going to use them again leave them on the porch rail - towels on the rail get washed every night.

Don't expect us to work entertaining you, while you play. We do not run a restaurant or hotel and we definitely don't offer room service.

Thank you for being our friend. You are welcome to share our home, but we do have rules. If you don't know what they are - ask - we will gladly tell you.

And the statement my grandson made - boy Nanna, you really let them have it on your blog. Sorry guys, some of you just needed reminding that this is our home, not yours.