I have been married to my husband for 26 years. I am tired of looking at the same man in the same body wearing the same style clothes. He doesn't always smell good. He talks too loud sometime - his hearing is going. I have heard the same stories he has to tell, until I am sick to death of them.
Hey! I am going to find someone exciting. People - Get Over It!
He is the same person that someone else thinks is terrific. He has taken care of me when I was so sick I couldn't move. He has cried with me over let downs and hard times. He has motivated me to get up and get going again.
Yes, we argue. We don't always talk to each other. Sometimes he does his thing and I do mine. We don't share everything and then again we do. He listens to me - I listen to him. Sometimes it is more fun to tell about it than to be there. What we enjoy together is most unforgettable. I sometimes think he knows me better than I know myself.
I cannot fathom a Governor planning to run for President acting in such a cavalier manner, without regard for his family, staff and constituents. This man does not even measure up to his own standards. He didn't try to hide his affair, he just disappeared, knowing he would be found out. He didn't trust anyone enough to have assistance in providing a viable explanation or alibi. He has no shame! He admitted publicly his year long affair and said I am sorry.
What is wrong people? Are there no ethics, morals, self respect left in the people of this world. Get over it! Thank God for what you have! Look around and count your blessings. Before you slip in someone else's backdoor, enter your own front door and see what you find. Look at your life like a stranger would - does it look inviting. Before you give it up, what will you be getting in return?
Look at the one enticing you - what is really behind that beautiful smile, those provocative clothes, the sweet smell? Do they want to be taken care of, shown off, share your glory, lean on you? If your load is too heavy to carry now, how will it feel to have another leaning on you?
Discontent - be happy - take up a new hobby - start a new sport - SAY A PRAYER! - but give more than you get every time. Your spouse may be feeling some discontent too.
Friday, June 26, 2009
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